However, and this might sound sad. Ask her if her parents buy their underwear from a bookstore. Because of the nature of this job, it was not uncommon for him to be at the hospital overnight or to be called back in for an emergency surgery.
And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not. On his days off he sleeps all day long. Take a breath, stop and think, is it worth destroying so many lives so you can step in and take the rewards after someone else does the hard work. Love and support them just as you would if your husband was a carpenter. Otherwise you risk having an awkward mix between dating and hanging out, which can be uncomfortable for those involved. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow.
She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me. If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again. My husband is midway throug his first year of cardiology fellowship and we have been having a tough time lately. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. We have been married 2 decades in a new city away from family and friends and I am this close pinches fingers to starting a local Facebook Club for people like us. It is important especially when you have children to make time for your partner regardless of his job.
As for the Mormon cohort he will be exposed to, I have two thoughts: And so far as I could tell, it worked and no one tried to drag her husband into the church. He'll pitch in when he can, but that isn't too often. The LDS Church encourages that young women explore their options and meet all different kinds of people. Instructions can be found here: Posted by Your Doctor's Wife at 2: September 6, at 3: Marianne April 28, at 8: Anonymous September 21, at Anonymous October 19, at 9: Anonymous May 3, at 5: Anonymous November 24, at 2: Anonymous January 13, at 8: A must-read every morning. They are just really convinced they are right. Ultimately there are no guarantees but I'd say it's worth a shot. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough. My wife and her family are a good example of this.