Good luck to both of you on working this out, and if you decide that interfaith marriage is something you can handle and your gentlemen turn out to be the right men for you, then welcome to the club. I think we need to steer far away from medicine…. He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. Have you created your Facebook Club yet.
It is an act of faith. He has changed so much over the years and is very impatient with the kids. I married for companionship but now all I do is wait for him to stop working, to come home, to call me back, to have time, which is hardly ever. Please submit content that is relevant to our experiences as women, for women, or about women. I married for companionship but now all I do is wait for him to stop working, to come home, to call me back, to have time, which is hardly ever. I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side.
I have no idea if he stayed. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things. It's not impossible, just painful and unlikely. He wants me to sit around while he does his stuff. I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good. Salaries for doctors are declining, with my boyfriend telling me that some nurses now make more than the lowest paid medical specialty - pediatrics. It may change your relationship to them forever. I am sooooo proud of him but his career has broken me in a way I don't know if I can piece back together. I feel selfish to never be around but this is my dream so much so that I refuse to have children because I dont want my kids to have a workaholic mother who's never there. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple.
I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer. So it is going to be over anyway. I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty. So while I believe that, in fact, non-celestial families still can be together forever, I also think that there must be great merit to qualifying for the whole Enchiladaвwhich I perhaps cannot fully appreciate at this time. It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book.