Like many Docotors wives, Our husbands have a demanding career. Our daughter is 6. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. I chanced upon this post because I was looking for help. I think the secret to a successful marriage and a successful family is to respect each other's space and to enjoy all the good times no matter how trivial they are and to foucs on the positive aspects of the marriage an family life.
Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. You have been blessed with the equipment to make such decisions. I love him so much, but it's torture spending so much time without him. I can totally understand. However, for me, there have been some perks too. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed.
I just returned from a difficult meeting with my psychotherapist and felt depressed-then I found this amazing blog. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. I've supported him for 5 years, taken on that Doctor's Partner role, put my ambitions on the back burner, and it hasn't done a lick of good. I also expected that my spouse would be temple worthy and that I would get married in the temple, which was not the case.
These exclusions, dictated by doctrine, hold the potential to create wedges between you, both immediately, and in the long term. I'm not going to hit the town with single ladies and couples find it awkward just inviting you over. You will always be second place. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with. He says that I should be happy that he is giving me all the comforts of life. We started dating 16 years ago, and both resigned from the church earlier this year. I can't emphasize this strongly enough.