If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older. Life After Mormonism Chat. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven. The sons inevitably went inactive later in life. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. I was sure I was just over sensitive until I read your posts.
I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. And you will be shocked. I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now. The dots are extremely close for every LDS person, its just extremely hard to connect them.
I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. They are taught to refrain from smoking, drinking, or experimenting with drugs. Then she can have a chance to actually be the individual she is, and they can have an adult conversation about their future and whether or not they have one. If you are willing to understand and accept these, whether or not you are a Mormon, you can have a fun time dating Mormon girls. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. Eternity is a long time. I seriously questioned the future of our relationship based on that fact alone. His fellow resident is married and seems like a good guy, I want to believe my bf will change.
What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life. This is starting to upset me though and I'm tired of waiting for change, so how should I approach the conversation. I honoured this request and did not contact her until after her exams finished. Even if she does, you'll be the reason in her family's eyes. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. In some cases you can just simply live together with differing religions. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum. There was a decrease in pay but an increase in our quality of life already. It sounds like you HAVE done your best in the past.