If you are an atheist or a non-believer, then let your date know, and politely decline the invitation. I tried to date Mormon women, honestly. It is so frustrating emotionally and physically to be your faithful wife. As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly different view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles. I'm not going to break up with her because of her religion, but if we can't come to some kind of understanding about what we'd do with kids After reading every page of that CES letter I am fully aware this religion is a complete fabrication. When I complain that I spent two days without seeing him and when he arrives home just keeps on answering his phone as if he was at work The other day a colleague called just to complain about a patient of theirs at 8: These people have no sense of privacy. We have a happy marriage. Meanwhile, he'll be adored and revered and flirted with by divorced nurses who would jump in the sack with him at a moment's notice. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding.
She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. Their values and the values of popular western culture are wildly disparate, which can be tough for them to navigate early in life. Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies. I was actually just talking to my husband about that the other day, at first he said that it depressed him when I said that, but really, it helps. It seems she'll expect you to become Mormon. I love my husband so much, but 40 years of loneliness has been more than difficult. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids.
Thoughtful, Meaningful Content Posts are moderated for content according to the following guidelines hit report on violations: Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. It has to do with their character. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. Honestly, I don't have very good advice, but keep being you and hopefully she won't let her religion blind her like it blinded me. You are a good person.
Try to have a date night once a week and when your Dr Spouse has time off go somewhere. Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles. Well, maybe not a total disaster, that is a bit exaggerated. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships. You'll know pretty quick where she stands.