Is there even any sex at all in this fantasy. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. This is my own personal opinion. Our relationship also hasn't really progressed-- we're still only spending the same amount of time together that we were a few months ago. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief.
If you remain active, Church service is very demanding of our lives в not a Sunday thing. I am not one to be interest with his paycheck, since i am accountant myself. I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. I don't know what to do. If they are, run to the altar, in or out of the temple. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. My youngest starts Kindergarten next fall. Those will make her think.
And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. It sucks but ultimately what Mormonism does to people is it makes them value adherence to church more than their relationships with people. I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. A couple of quick thoughts: December 12, at 9: December 13, at 2: December 13, at 8: December 13, at 4: December 13, at 6: December 14, at 6: December 17, at 7: December 19, at December 19, at 1: December 19, at 4: December 22, at 9: December 27, at 7: Also, be prepared for Mormon jokes.
No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature. I found that it worked just as well. Over the years, it would have felt increasingly burdensome to accommodate practices that seemed to me like superstition. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them.