They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it. Some great ideas include going on a hike or a walk, having a picnic outside or going to museum. That's the real issue. He knows how I feel about spending time together. Adore them and make them feel loved and appreciated. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there. These girls are nervous around non-Mormons. I thought I could do it, but the isolation, loneliness, and depression are much worse than I expected. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations.
What a bozza topic. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. Dating is a tricky game. I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. Do what feels right. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. Notify me of new posts via email. He would not appreciate my sacrifice of course, because they are often very self-center mind. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
It is amazing how different values and outlooks, interpersonal relationships can be from family to family. Much better to marry in the faith if possible. It also seems like he's into it based on how he acts around me and the things he says. Can they keep a job and or clean up after themselves. Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now. Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. This was hard for me because my faith is deeply rooted within me. Marriage is meant to be eternal.
I am a doctors wife. Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. We need to come to a decision pretty soon and I really need some insight. The submariner's wives are in a similar situation. And what happens when we have kids?. Otherwise you risk having an awkward mix between dating and hanging out, which can be uncomfortable for those involved. Break up with her. He has no vices, is the happiest person I know, is a healthy role model of manhood for my teen daughter and loves me to the depth of his soul. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. I am trying so hard to be understanding but the time when I could discuss my fears with him are well and truly gone.