I alway understood and supported him so it was my way of being useful in the world, too. Within a cultural group marriage is hard. It has been closed.
I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. Having read the majority of the posts, my only real comment is that "sacrifice must be appreciated by both parties". Essential reference tools, including a drug-interaction checker, medical calculators, and a pill identifier. I have no family nearby as I am from a different country. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. Much better to marry in the faith if possible. Due to the very long hours away from me and our children, my husband spends alot of his free time on the internet.
Your man is becoming a doctor, and while he's still a resident carving his way into the field, his off days will be few and far between. The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. Your man is becoming a doctor, and while he's still a resident carving his way into the field, his off days will be few and far between. I am a something male.
I've only seen him 3 times. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. I had tears in my eyes and goosebumps while reading it. She cried when you proclaimed your love of goodness because, in part, it was a sign that you weren't broken and desperate for Mormonism. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert. But my choice seems to be build a life so I am not lonely all the time or stay at home waiting for him to have time for me. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family.