In the end, God is a just God. All I can do is have Faith in Him. To sum up, they're incapable of loving anyone but themselves and the thought of a marriage counselor freaks them out as this would mean confronting their ultimate excuse of "I'm too busy". The important thing is that you are getting to know one another, not that you are always doing fancy things. Thoughtful, Meaningful Content Posts are moderated for content according to the following guidelines hit report on violations: Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. As teaching staff, he still works more hours than the residents on average and pulls call about twice a week. He isn't in school and doesn't have much idea about what it is like to be in my shoes.
Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. Some people really can't wait, others can, and there is nothing wrong with either of those. I'd rather marry a doctor and let him have a mistress on the side if that means not having to worry about money.
Great questions, and a terrific answer, Joanna. There are many professions that leave the spouse carrying the bulk of every day family life. Real love just happens. I love him more than anything, but lately, the lack of real time together and the stress of his work impacting how I am made to feel like I'm on eggshells when we do get together almost seems like to much to bear. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest.
The sons inevitably went inactive later in life. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. If you really need me, you better believe I'm going to be scrambling to find others to cover my patients so I can leave, but it's going to take some time to get things straight at work first. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church.