I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. I envy all you lonely doctor wives. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. I don't really care if she's religious or not, unless she brings it up all the time or tries to convert me.
Having read the majority of the posts, my only real comment is that "sacrifice must be appreciated by both parties". They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. We have almost daily prayers, scripture reading, and lengthy discussions about our beliefs. The house is perfect, with nothing out of place. Lok for certain things: Spend some time with a few and you will know what to look for. Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love. The hardest thing is the feeling of being completely shut out. I made the decision not to have those things when I married a non-member. Im a 19 year old female who is pre med at a university right now.
And you will be shocked. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Apr 4, 0. But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge.
I get a lot of satisfaction out of being a paramedic and my business is a long time dream. Whenever you bring something up, they'll say if it's not on lds. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband.