Communicate and get those answers, OP. Learn all you can. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. I am a fierce supporter of him and of his profession but at high cost to my own individuality. If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails. Your crush will watch you closely to see how you interact with these little ones. And as an outsider it will be obvious to you what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - we will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and something that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago. I pray the holy Spirit will provide guidance to both of us, and that love conquers all.
Listen to the still small voiceв. Some people really can't wait, others can, and there is nothing wrong with either of those. Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. I know, I know, this is the last thing you want to hear. She has opened my eyes to many parts of our national culture that are not in harmony with righteousness. This blog has been so helpful. Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. Maybe there is wisdom behind some of the peculiarities. We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. Even though it sounds like she is very Mormon, I feel that this will help her.
I am happy and established successful comp. Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect:. If you are only after non-serious dates and spend a great time, you should be fine with this set up. Mormon decried it was all a lie, an anti mormon lie.
I hope it all works out for you. So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences. And you will be shocked. We attempted to date back when I was in undergrad and he was in med school, and it went nowhere -- mostly because I was young, immature, self-centered and your typical spazzy college kid at that point. Not one little bit.