Please wait a few minutes and refresh this page. If you're just shaken up and in need of a few stitches and work is busy, that means instead of rushing to your side immediately I might wait until my shift ends before showing up with takeout and flowers to look after you. I'm afraid he's going to be more in love with work than me and a family. If she can't or won't consider that the church is a lie, you need to move on because this relationship can't go anywhere. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. I've found it extremely difficult particularly as he does not know how to communicate. You can't provide that for her so your marriage will be defective from the outset. I think love and caring can be more important.
I am scared of passing through all this you guys have passed before i even got to this blog i've thought bout it a lot. Do you have to leave for work at six in the morning and don't get home until you kids are in bed. So I came across this blog and I was hoping you ladies could give me some advice.
Mormons have separate congregations for young single adults, which is very convenient. I respect what my husband does but I have nothing but my pets and a dusty Ivy Leaguedegree. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families. It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever. I'm the kind of person that believes that it is just tacky in general to break up or end things via text, but that was my only option. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. Whether you like it or not, you are both married to medicine.
So any support on how to deal with ocd behavior, heavy handed opinions, would be helpful. I have missed anniversary dinners, birthday parties l, Christmas mornings as well as day to day. It is funny that we are all anonymous. How could I help a non-Mormon spouse to feel like a member of my ward family when he is not a member of my church.