She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church. I felt insane and crazy for being upset and considered just leaving ASAP. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced.
Very wise words when tell others to take a very cold hard look at there life. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. Eventually you will get engaged and married and have babies and buy a house together. We're generally very happy when we're together, but like everyone else, it isn't always easy to find the time between his schedule and mine. I honoured this request and did not contact her until after her exams finished. I do feel some of the pressure lifting off me in that I can start doing things for myself. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. Someday she may really regret everything, and miss you like crazy. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged. I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good.
I was the bishops' daughter who went to BYU but didn't go on a mission because I was already married with a 10 month old by my 21st birthday. Hello to everyone in this thread. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. The point of a date is to get to know someone better. I knew that I couldn't possibly be alone. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. I've been doing it wrong. But, you will probably lose.
Do people that are that busy honestly not have time to even think about their SO. The thing about General Authorities and General Conference, is that they give general counsel that is meant for the general population. Maybe things would be have different if I had been older or if I had not been so fragile. I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. Because I have a husband that is not a member I have a quasi like status in the ward. But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. Maybe it was because I was so young when I made the choice, maybe it was because I was the oldest child in an extremely active family with parents that just expected me to be a shining example to the younger kids.