Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. I'm the wife of an intern and we try to make a night each week to go do something, just the two of us. I have been dating a great guy for about a year now, and we started dating shortly after my parents died of cancer. But what I discovered surprised me. And our strength doesn't necessarily come from ego or wealth. Love in Different Languages. I would never change my decision to marry him.
I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. I'd at least insist that at 12 the kids can choose to disaffiliate.
Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. As you can see Also, the fact that she served a mission is evidence of her dedication to the religion. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. If you really care and think this is the lifestyle you wanted then go ahead. Am I resentful - yes!!. When I taught GD we discussd the lessons. I've been holding out, mostly contentedly, for a time when we could appreciate each other as unique individuals. Thanks for pointing this stuff out. Sorry, but it just isn't worth it.
For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. She is passionate about it. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. Hi I am married to a doctor and I am alone most of the time. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. It seems like mormons in particular are even more crazy than the majority of crazy religious people, and the manipulation and treatment of people who wish to think for themselves and challenge their beliefs is really frightening. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest.