If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. He has never said a disparaging word about his mother. I thought it was beautiful that they included him in the circle, even though he was not a Priesthood holder. That said, I would be fully aware that Mormonism is going to compel even the best of them to do some truly horrendous stuff at times. Why Mormons are not racist. While you will be of the right age to date, the Church discourages you from trying to date someone while on your mission trip.
I adored seeing him when I could planned good home made meals and always sent him off the next night with a special packed lunch. He expects perfect children who ,"will all become doctors. Marry a person based on his character, not his religion.
If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. Not one little bit. You would be her back up plan in case she can't find a guy who is a returned missionary, preferably from a prominent LDS family. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so.
What if she absolutely despises sex. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church. As far as as race and the priesthood, Mormons still believe the priesthood ban was divinely inspired. Nevertheless, I rarely have any trouble with setting some time aside to stay in touch with family, friends, and any woman I might be dating, as well. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. If you can't, then it's best to move on. You will be kept abreast of political changes within the church that regulate your wife's behavior -- you are probably already aware of several rules she follows.