I have never been your typical domestically skilled stay at home mom. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. But I do believe in modern prophets and that God gives no commandment that is not for our own happiness. Dozens of missionaries have told me that the gender ratios in other countries are far, far worse.
This always seemed terribly wrong to me. I've been married to a doctor for 5 years now been together for 11 years and he is in his first year of Anaesthetics. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS.
The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. Better navigate the business aspects of medicine and stay on top of the changing healthcare landscape. I mean lots of his friends from residency have girlfriends or wives and make it work. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path.
I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. I was the bishops' daughter who went to BYU but didn't go on a mission because I was already married with a 10 month old by my 21st birthday. I've been married to a cardiologist for 30 years. Their marriage falls apart because they are both working way too many hours, and they lose their way in life. We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. Their marriage falls apart because they are both working way too many hours, and they lose their way in life. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed. Get used to it. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with.