But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. When I acquired a personal testimony of the gospel as a teen, and made my own decisions regarding my faith, I felt very alone.
Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. It takes the right personality and commitment on both sides. I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. Wow just found this blog and for the first time am in mid's feel some support as an MD's wife of 30 years who is socially isolated he has very few friendsgetting despondent, bitter and resentful due to having some expectations which are met with constant disappointment.
This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. Your mids is still young. I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox.
Also don't ask questions that are too intrusive, or those that you would not like to answer yourself. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. I have been married to my doctor husband for 36 years. Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other. If he's too tired from work to go to a party that we both wanted to go to, then I'm cool with staying in since I just enjoy his company and am happy to finally be seeing him. A lot of Mormons escape that pitfall and can put people first. This blog accommodates some frank admissions about that which is less than wonderful about LDS. It is also considered disrespectful to others, as they may be uncomfortable because of your open displays. God told me to marry my husband.