Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. I have felt alone many a days when raising our 2 children while he was at work or out of town for conferences. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. If i want to go for a walk, he has to prepare for it. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. It is difficult to learn to have no expectations towards him, even though our mindset towards medicine is the same. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple.
I don't mind long hour days but not having a companion during weekends. My boyfriend and i have been togther for 2 years and he has finishd his masters in buisness and is residing in Asia in his job. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays.
I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years. I think people get carried away with the whole social status of a Doctor which is really unnecessary. He came to be by my side as soon as he could. The issue is that we have really spectacular sex that will often last for hours including foreplay haha, not all PIV, thank God. But that was also a possibility if he had married a non-mormon. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. I hope that you have left him at this point, and that you are happy. I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career.
If he is luck to be off call during the weekend, I would sleep most of the weekends away to make up the sleep deprivation. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. However her husband joined the church a few years after their marriage. What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor. Their values and the values of popular western culture are wildly disparate, which can be tough for them to navigate early in life. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. It just gets so lonely you invariably commission yourself a single parent. I don't mean to be rude, but she's not gonna give up her "nonsense".