I have had to compromise more often than I would have liked. Your mids is still young. Honestly, you are probably the only person who she has ever known to outwardly label themselves an atheist.
But from what you said, this girl doesn't sound like she is going to be content to have a marriage for time only. My fiance is a surgeon. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. Immediateley after we got married I realised things were not going to be as I thought.
Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. Two years ago, I found out he was having an affair with one of his PA's at the hospital. Essential reference tools, including a drug-interaction checker, medical calculators, and a pill identifier. Maybe you do, too. She probably doesn't even realize how crazy that is. I seriously could have been the one to write most of that about my situation.
Even though it sounds like she is very Mormon, I feel that this will help her. I am very active with my work, social life, and activities and independent. Mormons are one of the few remaining groups with healthy women. When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. None felt right, ever. And you know what. The fact that your guy came right out and said he didn't care what you thought and that we was going to spend his money and time the way he wanted indicates that he still thinks of himself as single. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. I have no control over my schedule I'm sure you all remember those daysand it kills me to know that he has moved thousands of kilometers away from our home town with me so that I can do this residency. I remember when my ex and I had invited friends to our house for a 4th of July dinner and had spent a lot of money and time getting ready.