Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself. Aw, glad I can help. I've moved to be with him for med school, then we moved again for residency and just moved again for fellowship. I'm encouraged that this blog gives many of you hope. Of course, your parents will care most.
I understand that he us trying to study but I'm doing everything in my power to. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. So you made a wise decision. Honestly, unless you want to convert and: And, if she does claim those things don't matter, be prepared to find out how much they really do after you've married her. Let me say this so you can get an idea of just how crazy and how much your girl friend is into the Mormon religion: These are known as "garments". She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. Your attempts at being funny or lightening the mood may backfire, and your date may be put off. To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc. Although most of our communication is through text.
In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think. My family says I should leave him…. If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind in that sense, but also he has had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US. Such beliefs make the girls confident about being women. Whatever you do, just don't let on to your child ren that you and their father are in disagreement.
Is this a sign of my own weakness. I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty. Best wishes in whatever you decide. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day. Aww God bless all u patient strong wives. God knows the big picture. I find that one of the most important things is to make sure you have a support system, whether they are other doc wives, family or friends. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book.