However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. You cannot do his job. It also seems like he's into it based on how he acts around me and the things he says. Lots of really thorough replies. If this is his first year, I believe he has at least two more years, possibly as many as four or five. Yes, because that is generally what is best. Basically this is different than dating a religious mainstream Christian.
I got married last year, left a great job, family, friends and city to be with my husband in a very small under developed town. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. I chanced upon this post because I was looking for help. But it also means he has ultimate responsibility for his patients, both ethically and legally. My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me. Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder.
Also, I'm having a really hard time understanding from these responses how anyone in the medical field ever dates or gets married. Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. He was also born in Russia during the 80s and did not come to the United States until so we sometimes deal with cultural differences as well as religious. All these are reasons to have some serious discussions. Simply tell him that you feel like your relationship is stagnating, and you'd like to talk about where it is going. He realized his dream of being a specialty surgeon and having a family but leaves the dirty work to me.
Sometimes I complain to my kids and to my husband. During our brief break, two of his nurses chased him like crazy, immediately after he left being in a year-long relationship where two families were blended. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. No walking your daughter down the aisle, no giving your daughter away at the alter, nothing but you standing outside the temple waiting till it's over.